Kırkbeş 45 Manisa Mukaddes and Arzu Believe it or not, we have been friends since our childhood school days. Back then you would have called us unlikely best friends, and even more so today, but it is what it is. Despite our outer differences, we share the same sorts of emotions, dreams, and deep-dark-secrets. Mukaddes is truly from the village, growing up barefoot in the garden, helping her mother and aunties wash laundry by hand and cook with enough oil to be good tasting and too much to be good for your health. This explains, of course, why she was such a good catch, married while still in her teens. And look at the happy couple, muhtar , or local governors, of the village today. Her one sorrow is that they weren’t able to have children. She would have made a great mother. Instead, she expends all her mothering energy on me, Arzu, which I need a great deal. My own mother divorced my father when I was a child, an anomaly in Manisa, at least at the time. I lived with my mother in town